May 2013
6 posts
Anonymous asked: With everyone claiming to be relieved at the discovery of being an INFJ, it feels like we are wizards at hogwarts or mutants at xavier's school for the gifted!
Anonymous asked: .Hi, fellow INFJ :) I have recently discovered the MBTI and well, I finally felt ... understood in a way. I'm not alone, I'm not weird, I'm just different. So, How did you feel when you discovered the MBTI?
“INFJs often feel frustrated when the world doesn’t see them for their true inner...”
– Dr. A. J. Drenth (via m00ki3)
Anonymous asked: Have you ever had people close to you tell you that you were crazy, or tried to get you to believe that you were crazy? Well, my adopted mother often did this to me when I was a teenager making me feel like things about myself were weird, wrong, or indicative of a mental disorder in turn making me constantly question the validity of my feelings & thoughts, & even my sanity. Turns out...
sleeplesspastels asked: Is there an accurate internet test that tells you what your Myer's Briggs is? I get INFJ or some variation of it, and I want to be at least 80% sure :) Thanks
Anonymous asked: Some how I have ended up with all of my friends being teenaged extroverts, a bit crazy, I know! The problem is when we are out in a busy cafe with loud live music, and they meet other friends who I dont know and have little in common with them) and become hyper, get involved in long conversations leaving awkwardly sitting there watching their conversation, as their awareness of me seems to fade...
April 2013
5 posts
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My heart goes out to everyone who was hurt today in Boston.
If any of you live in the Boston area, please be very careful, and please stay at home. It’s the safest place to be right now.
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Anonymous asked: Hey, this is the work anon from before. I just wanted to say thank you for suggesting the podcasts. Listening to other people talk to each is a HUGE help! I feel much more sane after my shift!
belletoni asked: There's this ENTP I've known since kindergarten. ENTP and INFJs are a 'perfect match' but true to his type he isn't very emotional and I cant tell if he really likes me. He makes it a point to talk to me after class (we sit on opposite sides of the rooms), asks for hugs/ handshakes, compliments me, runs up to me/ yells my name in the hall/ lockers, and other things. He...
There was an anon that messaged me a couple days ago about finding their true self
That’s an issue I’ve struggled with myself anon, and I’m trying my best to find the best way to describe how to find yourself
I’m sorry anon, but if you could wait a couple more days i’ll have your answer soon enough!
Anonymous asked: My new job entails me driving a car for eight to twelve hours and I'm finding it's actually way too much thinking time for me. I need to find a way to exercise my extroverted functions, but I never see people during that time. I just thought I'd see if you had any suggestions. Thanks.
March 2013
5 posts
uncertainofmyfate asked: I am so creatively frustrated. I am really creative but haven't found my outlet as yet?! Have no idea what I should do with my life
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my-sideoftherainbow:
This 100% accurately describes me. I wish more people in the world understood this about us.
by quietmusician
An INFJ demeanor can range from either appearing sad to lost in thought to slightly angry or irritated. Of course I have known some with a more…
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm an INFJ and whenever I'm with someone who I'm interested in I can become very annoying, talkative, and slightly rude.I hear the voice in my head saying "don't say that" but I do anyway... How can I prevent myself from doing this?
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm a male INFJ and I know when my female friends' periods are, its so weird, I just know, why is this?
Anonymous asked: Hello! I'm 18 and have M.E. (CFS) and depression, is this normal for an INFJ? I feel so drained all the time yet try to do so much for my friends and aquaintances, at the expense of my health, and I get so so angry at them (when they dont understand it) and my health, which just makes me worse!
February 2013
3 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm an INFJ in a relationship (with an INFJ/P) and I don't want to leave but I don't know if I should stay. I love them, but don't know if they're 'the one' I should marry. Does this understanding and certainty come with time? Or should I be certain reasonably quickly? It's just i usually instinctively know what I should do, i don't regarding the future...
January 2013
4 posts
Anonymous asked: Do INFJ males gravitate to women that are not well suited for them? I have several male infj friends who try to "save" the woman they date? Is this normal?
Anonymous asked: Is it common or normal for INFJ's to attract controlling relationships? (both platonic friends and romantic relationships)
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Anonymous asked: I'm really thinking about what I want to do for the rest of my life (career wise.) Whenever I think about staying in that one career or life or whatever I get really anxious and start to freak out. Is that normal for an INFJ? Complete anxiety about "settling down?"
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l0vesuperwoman asked: How do you figure out someone's personality type without doing a test?!
December 2012
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Anonymous asked: Being an INFJ and breaking up with people it always seems to me that I just completely stop all romantic feelings towards the person once I believe it'll not work in the long run. Would that be generally the case for INFJ's? Also how'd you approach the breakup? cheers.
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Anonymous asked: Is it unusual that I tend to mirror the other fifteen types in my life? I mean, I know the INFJ has Extraverted Feeling, but is it normal to have times that you can think like the other types?
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Anonymous asked: I have read on multiple INFJ facts and statistics sites that INFJs are more commonly apt to have marital or long-term relationship dissatisfaction. From your experiences and from what you know, why do you think this is the case? (You can edit this question to sound or look better if you wish, but keep the question and derivative the same)
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fifityshadesofkawaiii asked: do you ever get into deep internal debates with yourself when you meet someone who dosnt meet your value system, but you're okay with them anyways, but then you feel like youre cheating yourself and your values?
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Anonymous asked: Question about INFJs and the whole, 'all or nothing' principle? I'm an INFJ and I feel like when someone isn't giving me their all, It's not good enough for me? I'd prefer they give me 100% or nothing at all. People around me can't seem to understand that theory and I'm wondering if it's typical of an INFJ or just me? It always applies to friendships,...
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Anonymous asked: I was in a relationship with an ESFP for a while, and it can work quite well. Some potential pitfalls to watch for include: The ESFP tends to need social affirmation and attention to feel good, which can exhaust the INFJ. The ESFP does not understand INFJ's need for space. INFJs are unable to be as outgoing as ESFP would like. The ESFP can sometimes seem to blow off the INFJ's problems...
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Anonymous asked: do you know anything about INFJ/ESFP relationships? i have a feeling im always attracted to ESFPs and a couple of my best friends who i get along with more than anyone are ESFPs, but we're supposed to get along better with ENFPs? just wondering!
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Anonymous asked: Is English your primary language?
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aarondmunoz asked: In one of your answers, you talked about how some of your friends were "developed in their type" and "used all of their skills." How does an INFJ, like ourselves, develop their type and use all of their skills?
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It seems that i got some… unpleasant asks in my ask box today.
I just would like you all to know there’s a question in the box that’s a little tricky to answer. The wording has to be perfect in order for it’s point to get across
I’m almost done answering that one, and it’ll probably be up today.
But I am working for this blog. And if you don’t like how...
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Anonymous asked: Any information on INFJ/ISFJ relationships? I can't find anything so I'm assuming theyre rare, but I'm really curious.
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Anonymous asked: Hi! I did the test, and I came up as an INFJ, and I match the description of it almost perfectly! However, whenever I do the test again now, I come up as an INFP. I definitely have elements of an INFP personality but I fit the INFJ so much better? I dont really understand! haha :) I don't know if this is really a question or not, but I feel a bit like I'm an INF and both a J and a P!...
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m-a-gical asked: do you know any infjs personally? I've never met or spoken to another one before, that I know of! :)
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Anonymous asked: any clues to look for if an INFJ is has feelings for you? since they are probably not going to be the one to make the first move.
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Anonymous asked: I just took the Myers-Briggs Test and I am also an INFJ. I am a college freshman and I've been having lots of thoughts lately about who I am and the people around me. My dorm hall is filled with a bunch of extroverted cliquey, & many drinking, smoking, drug taking people weird in my eyes! It's so hard and it makes things awkward sometimes. The library and the commuter lounge with...
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Anonymous asked: I've taken over 10 versions of online MBTI tests and scored INFJ on every one. I know that the online tests are generally inaccurate but does the consistency in my results counteract that?
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Anonymous asked: I'm an INFJ and I've got a friend who's an INTJ. Well, really, they're my only friend. I really really love them (platonically), but I feel like I can trace my depression back to the time I met them. I really don't want to hurt them, because I'm pretty sure I'm the only close friend they've had, but I also feel like being around them saps my energy and hurts...
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Anonymous asked: Do you ever have trouble hanging around T's? All of my friends are T's, and they kinda make fun of the F, calling me stuff like a "weak little feeler". I like these people a lot, but it can get really tedious having to ignore all of the jibes at being weak and emotional. Especially with my best friend, an INTJ.
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Anonymous asked: speaking of INFP's. I am an INFP & I'm struggling with a deep love for an INTJ. I feel as though we can talk without talking and we both feel the same way about each other and that no one is speaking up. Any advice? I would like to talk to them about it but I don't know how to go about it. =/
November 2012
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Anonymous asked: How do you view INFP's?
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thegozumshow:
For most INFJs, omitting or distorting information is equivalent to lying, and at the very least will rouse their suspicion. INFJs have an acute sensitivity for stories which don’t quite fit. At the same time, INFJs also like to assume the best and can be extremely gullible.
INFJs are adept at nonverbal communication (eye gaze, touching, body language, etc.). Just because they’re...
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amygdaloides:
FUCKING HILARIOUS AND TRUE AND HILARIOUS
October 2012
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greatperhapsgrandermaybes asked: TRICK OR TREAT!
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adanwen asked: Hi there fellow-INFJ, trick or treat!:D